How To Play Guitar With Authority | Make People Take You Seriously

Updated: Jun 18, 2020


"No man has any natural authority over his fellow men." - Jean-Jacques Rousseau

You have been playing guitar for almost a year now.

You already have some nice skills with the guitar.

You can play many of the songs you love.

Some of your friends have even told you that they like how you play.

What's the next step? Well, play in a band, of course!

The problem is that if you have never played live in front of strangers, then you, my friend, are in for a treat.

A good show is not only about good music. It's called a show, not an audition, because there's more to it than just sound.

It's very likely nobody every told you this, though. It's so easy to spot a newbie player onstage because they are like a deer caught in headlights: paralyzed with such a fear that not even Freddy Krugger himself would be able to instill even on a Halloween night.

In this lesson, I'm going to show you what you need to know in order to play with Authority so that people listen to you for real and take you like you want to be taken: like a Badass Rockstar.

First of all, it's fair to point out that each audience has its own likes and dislikes, and these should not be challenged. I say should not instead of must not with purpose, and I'll explain that to you in just a moment.

These tend to be a set of invisible, unwritten Laws that emerge in certain groups, which must be met at a bare minimum in order to be part of it. It's fine, you know what I mean.

It's like a game of what frat you belong to. You have to meet their expectations or else they'll kick you out after humilliating you in front of everyone on campus by bathing you in honey and covering you with chicken feathers.

No, I've never suffered anything like that, I just saw it!

Not matter what music sub-culture you belong to, what style you play, how skilled you are, whether you are grass or rock Pokemon, there are four areas you must nail in order to project an image of authority, so that people recognize you mean business.

Because at the end of the day, we all want to be taken seriously and with respect.

Let's start with the most obvious and then move on to more advanced stuff.

Your Music

The first step is rather obvious, and it is, in my opinion, the most important.

  • Quality music

Your music must be good. It does not need to be great, but it should be interesting at the very least.

Although this is so obvious, it's most likely the grayer area, since there are no rules as to what makes music good or interesting. However, here are a couple of guidelines you can use to make sure you are on track:

  • Do not copy other musicians

We all have our heroes, I know. Still, it's one thing to admire someone, and another totally different to imitate them too much.

You know the kind, it's those who will start with a cover band, then move on to a tribute band, until finally just openly copying their songs with other lyrics and call them "original music in the style of".

There is much subjectivity in this point, I'm afraid, but know that there is a threshold you eventually cross and all of a sudden it becomes too much, and you've ruined it.

Plus, at least 90% of you will be able to come up with examples off the top of your heads of bands that imitate others, who are always regarded as "sellouts", "thieves", or just outright dishonest.

It's OK to draw inspiration from others, but don't let that get to your head too much. Take your own path, it will be better on the long run, plus:

Pay extra attention to Iñigo, especially if you made the mistake of killing his father.

  • Avoid using the same chords or chord progressions too often

Often times we hear a chord progression and we instantly think of "X" band.

The choice of chord progression is one of those things that can make or break a band, to catapult it to star status or sink it like lead in the sea.

I'm sure you can think of many artists or bands that have gone into oblivion after having a one-hit success. On the other hand, it's very rare that a band can survive for longer than 5 or even 10 years. Yeah, I know, the Rolling Stones are just about immortal at this point.

Here's the thing, guys...sooner rather than later, using the same exact progressions, or even harmonies for the sake of it, will make your music either boring or just about the same to everything else you've already done. Neither of those outcomes is something you want to instill on anyone.

I know what you might be thinking, and yes, I do recognize that most artists have a couple of tricks that give them their personality and style; I'm not saying that is not the case. What I do mean to say is that it's one thing to have a personal style and another completely different thing to have all your songs sound the same.

If you want to use a simple chord formula for the choruses of your songs, that might be OK, but make sure that at the very least you change the chords involved, or even change the progression elsewhere on the song.

  • Consider using odd chords or scale notes on each song

Here's some aspect of music that most people either never considered or were told that it is forbidden, or something just like that.